Creative ideas

As I mentioned in another blog, a cuckold couple brings a Bull into their relationship to restore their sexual energy to what it once was. Everyone remembers what it’s like when you’re in a new relationship. The first date jitters, the butterflies, the excitement of those early sexual encounters and so on. This is the energy that a cuckold couple hopes to recapture by including a new person in their sex lives.

If you’re smart you will capitalize on it to create intense experiences for you and for them.

The first meeting or two or three may be almost traditional. You will likely have sex with the Hotwife in several positions and probably in a normal setting like a bedroom or sofa. Perhaps the cuckold husband even participates the first time or two, with some male-female-male sex play. At this point in the relationship simply having someone new is probably sufficient stimulation for everyone.

However, as things progress further into a true Bull-Hotwife-cuckold relationship, the Bull should begin to assert himself and take charge. He can steer the encounters and become more creative. This is the point where everyone can start to “live out their wildest fantasies”.

Take charge. Push things in the direction you want, and the direction the couple or Hotwife wants. Be dominant. But you must also be creative. Even the most attractive, well-hung Bull will begin to lose his appeal if every encounter is the same routine. It's your role to keep those fires burning. 

Over the years I have had the good fortune to live out many fantasies, some of my own creation and some were the ideas of others. Here are a few suggestions you may wish to include in your play with a couple:

• Have the Hotwife suck you off in a semi-public place while the cuckold husband stands guard 

• Have the cuckold husband leave the bedroom for short periods of time while you are having sex with his wife

• Have the cuckold sit in the closet or someplace out of sight, where he can hear the sex but not see anything

• The first time you spend the night at the cuckold couples home, and if you sleep in the guest room, slip into their bed at 4:00 a.m. and awaken them by crawling between the Hotwife’s legs and fucking her

• Meet the Hotwife at her home or your home for a mid-day nooner, while the cuckold husband is at work

• Spend the night later at the home of the cuckold couple, with you and the Hotwife sleeping in the master bedroom this time, and the husband sleeping alone in the guest room

• When doing the above, send the Hotwife down to visit her husband every hour, so that he can touch, taste and smell the sex on his wife

• Stop by the couples’ home on short notice late at night, fuck the Hotwife and leave

• When having sex with the Hotwife alone at your place, call the cuckold husband at home and let him listen in

• Use a video camera to tape yourself and the Hotwife having sex, then send her home to her husband with the videotape

• Pick up the Hotwife at her home, take her out to dinner, then return to her home together and go straight to their bedroom for sex. Leave the cuckold hubby in the living room

• Use the Hotwife's cell phone to take pics of her sucking and fucking, and send them to the cuckold husband while you’re having sex

• Spend time socializing in the living room with the couple, perhaps watching a movie.  But sit next to the Hotwife, kissing, teasing, groping and treating her like your wife

• Have the cuckold husband lay next to his wife in bed and continuously apply liberal amounts of lube while you fuck her tits until you cum

• Share the Hotwife with a male friend (or two) while her husband watches

• Share the Hotwife with a female friend (if both are bi) while her husband watches

• Go to a swing club with the cuckold couple, with you and the Hotwife being the “couple”

• Have sex on the beach at night while the cuckold husband stands lookout

• Have the cuckold husband put his face inches away from his wife’s pussy while you fuck her, then tell him to masturbate to orgasm like that

• Call the cuckold ahead of a date or a visit, and tell him to dress his wife in a certain way, or tell him to make sure her pussy is shaved bald for you, etc.

• Have the Hotwife talk to her cuckold husband while you fuck her, making sure to smile at him and tell him how much better the sex is with you

• Buy a “Hotwife” or “Cuckold” anklet for the Hotwife and have her wear it when you go out in public

• Have the cuckold husband tie his Hotwife to their bed spread eagle and blindfold her before you arrive, then you fuck her hard and rough while he watches

• All three of you attend a (adult) house party, with you and the Hotwife acting as the main couple

• Have the cuckold husband drive his Hotwife to your place for sex. Then make him wait in the living room while you take his wife to the bedroom

• While at a public function or party with a cuckold couple whisk the Hotwife away to a private spot, have sex with her, then return and let the husband know

• When all of you are at a restaurant together, you and the Hotwife go out to the car for a quick sex session (fucking or blowjob) then return to the table and sit side by side

• Call the Hotwife and cuckold hubby at their home, and have him go down on her while you and she have phone sex

• Have the Hotwife take off her wedding rings and hand them to the cuckold husband before she goes into the bedroom with you, or goes out on a date with you

• All three of you go to an adult theater. You and the Hotwife sit together upfront, with the cuckold hubby sitting alone in the back, watching anything that might happen

• Have the Hotwife flash her breasts in a public or semi-public place, and do it “for you”

• Arrange to take the cuckold couple to a group or orgy scene, but only you and the Hotwife play. The cuckold husband is limited to watching only

• Have the cuckold husband lay against the headboard on the bed, with his Hotwife leaning against him or laying on him, so that he can feel the power of your thrusts while you fuck her

• Have the Hotwife kneel in front of you and have her cuckold husband hold her head from behind while you fuck her mouth until you cum

• One night when the Hotwife visits you at your home convince her to stay the entire night and go home the next morning (Hint - alcohol is your friend!)

• Surprise the cuckold husband coming home from work by fucking his wife on the bed or sofa when he walks in

• When out in public together put your arm around the Hotwife frequently, acting as her husband

• Make it the cuckold husband’s role to “prepare” his wife’s pussy every time you penetrate her. Have him do this whenever you take a break or change positions and between every fuck

• Get in the backseat of a car with the Hotwife at night and have the cuckold husband drive you around town while you have sex with her

• Bend the wife over your knee and spank her bottom red in front of the cuckold husband and then fuck her

• While socializing at the couples home, ask the cuckold husband to get drinks and refills for you and the Hotwife. When he returns with a refill have his wife on her knees sucking your cock

• Take the Hotwife on an overnight trip out of town

• Have the cuckold husband lay next to his wife in bed, kissing her while at the same time holding one of her legs, helping spread her wide as you fuck her (even better if she cums like this)

• Have the Hotwife do something for you that she would not do for her husband, or that he has been unable to get her to do

• Have the cuckold husband drive his wife to your home wearing nothing but a full-length coat. When he drops her off tell him to return at a prearranged time to pick her up

• Call or text the Hotwife late at night and tell her to leave her bed and meet you somewhere for a quick fuck

• After fucking her with the cuckold husband watching, have the Hotwife spread her legs for him and masturbate while she tells him how much she loved it

Boundaries are meant to be pushed

The biggest reason cuckold couples choose to bring a Bull into their lives can be summarized in one word: change.

For any of a hundred different reasons their sex life had reached a point where they both agreed to include another person in their bed. Some couples try swinging. Others opt for threesomes. Then there are couples who choose the cuckold lifestyle.

A smart Bull recognizes this, and he works with the couple to restore the sexual energy the couple desires. The way to do that is to really understand what they want (or what they THINK they want), and bring those changes into their bedroom.

The Bull should take the time to get to the bottom of what motivates them both. This can take weeks of communicating, and often times the husband and the wife each have different reasons for choosing the lifestyle.

Sometimes the wife may be turned on by something and the cuckold husband is turned on by something different. But each of their different needs and desires lead them to the same solution, which is the decision to include another man in their relationship. It is important to fully understand what they both need and then try and fulfill both needs. Otherwise the relationship will not last long and the Bull will soon be searching for another couple.

Along with their motivations the Bull needs to understand the limits of the husband and the wife. Once again, these limits may not be the same. If not then the Bull is usually limited to the most restrictive boundary.

For instance if the husband wants his wife to go bareback, but the wife insists on condom use then the Bull must use condoms. Ideally the limits of both the husband and wife will be the same, but this is not always the case. Limits with some couples might include kissing, condom use, anal, humiliation, etc. Every couple will be unique.

But one important thing to remember is that the couple brings a Bull into their bedroom because they want someone else to take charge and bring that change.

They may not discuss it  (or even realize it), but they understand that giving control to someone else also means that things may not always go as they expect. This element of the unknown is something that enhances the experience for the couple. It’s also a tool for a smart Bull to use!

Don’t be predictable. Shake things up. That’s what they WANT (even if they don’t know it). Respect boundaries, but don’t be afraid to push them either. Pushing boundaries without actually crossing them can be a great way to create unforgettable encounters that will leave the couple thirsty for more.

For instance, if the wife insists on condom use, deliberately push her limit. Over the course of a few visits, during foreplay and while moving toward intercourse, deliberately create situations where your uncovered cock is strategically placed at the entrance of her vagina.

Let your cock bump against her clit. Deliberately let it slide up and down her wet opening. Don’t cross that boundary and penetrate her. Instead wait for her to do that. She will, if you’re patient enough. Eventually she will raise her hips and take you inside.

Once that occurs then that boundary has fallen, but SHE is the one who did it, not you. You merely created the circumstances that made her WANT to cross her own boundary (smart Bull!).

From then on she may allow penetration and intercourse without a condom. But she may also adjust her boundary, asking that from that night forward you to pull out prior to reaching orgasm.

Once again, this is just another boundary to be pushed. Abide by her wishes at first. Over time you can push that boundary, pulling out later and later, until the inevitable night when she holds you tight and allows you to spray her full of your cum. Then that boundary too will have fallen.

This same process works equally well with the cuckold husband, as he will follow the wishes of his wife. He will usually agree to anything that she desires. If there is something she wants that he does not, she will eventually ‘win’ and get her way.

This brings up one more point. There will be times when you want the wife to agree to something that may not interest her. There may also be things you want the cuckold husband to do or agree to, which he may not find appealing.

In both cases you should know how to work the other spouse to assist you in your efforts. Don’t be too obvious or the couple will see it as a divide and conquer strategy (it is). You must be subtle, and learn how to gently persuade one spouse to help you convince the other. A smart Bull learns to master this technique.

If you are smart and patient, you can eventually get any cuckold couple to do whatever you want, without them ever being aware of it and without them ever feeling like you disregarded their limits.

The Science of Cuckold Marriages

Like anything in life, in order to be successful at building a cuckold relationship you should do your homework and understand what they're all about. This is probably the best explanation I found on the subject. It was well worth the time to read.

The Science of Cuckold Marriages

By sex therapist & relationships counselor Susan Gower

After studying human sexuality for many years it has become inarguable to me that a cuckold relationship (in which the wife engages in sexual activity with a variety of men while her husband remains faithful) is most compatible with basic human evolutionary make up. It is straying from this evolutionarily grounded human bonding relationship that has produced such misunderstandings and conflict between the sexes.

At the very base of this principle is the understanding of a woman’s psychological need for a variety of sex partners. Women are literally hardwired differently than men. A woman has a dual sex drive. The first is centered on finding a mate for life to help support her and her offspring. This is why (and when) love is such an important part of a women’s sexual desire. 

The second is a desire to obtain a variety of the best genetic material to produce the healthiest children. This second desire becomes  stronger once a woman has secured her life mate, and grows stronger as time with him progresses. Eventually, this more powerful drive exceeds her sexual desire for her life mate. This is essentially why a woman’s sexual desire for her husband is well known to diminish over time.  At the same, it is normal for her to feel a subtle but very real increase in her sexual desire for other men.  

With the creation of a stable home environment in which to raise her children, there is a clear physiological shift toward a womans desire to mate with the best man (or men) available to her, for their contribution of superior genetic material.  This natural fact does not make her immoral, or mean that she no longer loves her husband. It is simply part of her basic genetic code.

Contrary to societal contrivances to the contrary, these physiological sexual differences between men and women also seem to support the cuckold relationship as one ideal for a marital relationship. It is well known that women don’t reach her sexual peak until they are in their thirties, while men peak by the time they are twenty. In a typical marriage, a wife is generally younger than her husband or the same age. As a result, a woman’s increasing sexual appetite, due to her biological age, creates stronger sexual drives than her husband.  As a marriage continues through the years, this discrepancy in sexual drives typically increases, sometimes to the point of a wife finding little or no sexual satisfaction with her husband, and secretly turning to extramarital encounters. 

Nature reinforces this physical need by providing women with the ability to experience a far greater quantity, intensity, and variety of sexual orgasms than men. This is nature’s way of motivating a woman to seek out sexual activity, even at the risk of being caught by her life mate.  Women experience a diversity of orgasms, including clitoral and vaginal.  Additionally, women have the ability for multiple orgasms.  While this simple pleasure is often recognized as the result of efforts by the woman's partner, it has been theorized that this trait actually is a natural function designed to allow a woman to participate and enjoy sex with multiple partners over a short period of time. 

On the other hand, men are far simpler sexually. His sex drive grows will simply grow stronger the longer he goes without sex, with a singular, simplistic orgasm resulting.  Since he needs a consenting female in order to engage in sex, his desire for her sexually is directly linked to this need for her to  consent.  Over time his need for sexual release can become overwhelming, and his desire to gain her consent by pleasing her increases proportionally to his level of sexual frustration.  He is content mating with any female he finds desirable, and is perfectly capable of being content with having sex with the same female for life, providing certain motivations are provided.

Furthermore, men can get nearly the same level of satisfaction from masturbating or oral sex as the do completing a sex act with a woman.  For women however, masturbation and oral sex provide only temporary relief.  Women do require sex with a partner in order to be fully satisfied, both psychologically and physically. 

There have been numerous clinical studies documenting positive emotional responses to the presence of male sperm in the female vagina.  Theory suggests that certain hormones contained in the seminal deposit illicit both physical and emotional changes in a woman's own hormone levels.  While not completely understood, these studies do support the theory that a woman's most satisfying sexual experiences result from intercourse with a male, resulting in his ejaculation.

One might think that these conditions present arguments for an open marriage in which both a wife and her husband find sexual partners outside their marriage.  But the idea of open marriage assumes the erroneous notion that men require a variety of sex partners, and that women are tolerant of their men mating with others. However, neither assumption is typical. 

While the evidence clearly suggests that a married woman is instinctively inclined to seek sexual partner(s) other than her long term mate in order to procreate with males carrying the best genetic material, a man has a sexual drive that is easily manipulated. 

The genetic programming that drives a man is largely based on the thrill of pursuit, not the need for variety.  Men are designed to compete.  They compete in every aspect of life.  Not only do they compete in their workplace, but they compete even in their hobbies.  It's hardly incidental that men enjoy watching or participating in sporting events. 

Most importantly though, men compete for their female.  Husbands who’s desire for their wives have waned over time, or even shifted to other women, can be completely reversed with one simple change – the introduction of a competing male vying for their wife's attention.

In study after study, married men responded consistently when exposed to stimuli that include another man's attention to the wife.  This trigger awakens their instincts to compete and they literally rise to the occasion.  Their focus reverts solely back to their wives, and they lose interest in other women.  The wives in some studies were able to deliberately vary their husband’s level of interest through increasing or decreasing their interaction with other men. 

It was further found that when these same wives reverted back to traditional sexual practices with their husbands, their husbands began to lose interest and once again showed interest in other women as possible sex partners.  The mere possibility of competing for her with another man consistently and predictably reinvigorates his desire in a man.  Common belief holds that men are born to cheat.  However these studies clearly show that men are born to compete. 

In one study (Hill, Leeson 2004), there is also a clear correlation between sexual desire and the absence of the woman from the relationship, supporting the age-old axiom that “absence makes the heart grow fonder”.  This pattern introduces a possible correlation between sexual denial and resultant arousal. An extended absence makes more than just the heart grow.  It dramatically increases the need of a male to mate with his partner. 

The introduction of the possibility of the woman straying sexually during her absence invoked a much stronger response in the male, to the point that it totally altered his behavior. This study supports the belief that men can indeed become physically aroused by the mere  possibility of their wife cheating on them in their absence, which is actually one of the cornerstones of the Cuckold lifestyle.

Once a husband feels these competitive forces awaken within him, he becomes singularly focused on pleasing his wife,and seeking her constant approval and sexual consent.  This is another simple concept that drives the Cuckold relationship.  Even in relationships where the couple may not recognize why it occurs, it usually doesn't take long for them to recognize how it can affect their intimate relationship. 

A husband will readily and predictably respond to the threat of competition, whether real or imagined.  A wife can use that competition to help mold a sexual relationship that proves sexually satisfying for both of them, while insuring relationship stability and her husband's fidelity all at  the same time.

The involvement of another male into the relationship has additional benefit, other than the obvious sexual benefits to the wife and the resultant stability to the relationship. Some men expressed relief that their wife was being satisfied by another, being relieved of the pressure to perform as her primary sex partner.  The older the husband becomes, the more this motivation is mentioned. 

Our modern morals and the roles imposed both sexes by society are not only aberrant behavior given our genetic makeup, but psychologically unhealthy. Marriage itself is an artificial construct that conflicts with natural human programming. It is unfair that a woman is forced to repress her natural sex drive which is genetically embedded over a millenia. Doing so places undue strain on what is viewed by society as the “traditional” marriage and surely contributes to the rate of marriage failures.  We've created a society in which women often struggle with guilt and frustration over their natural sexual needs.  

Perhaps we need to consider embracing the Cuckold lifestyle as a healthy, natural relationship. Indeed, I believe that I may have saved marriages in my practice by gently introducing the idea and practice of cuckoldry to struggling couples. I have seen female patients rediscover a side of themselves they thought was lost, becoming more centered, calm and confident in both themselves and their marriage.

Similarly, once a husband gets past his initial concerns, they become calmer and more focused on the relationship.  Rather than seeking the temptation of satisfaction outside the marriage, the husband soon derives all of his sexual needs from and through his wife and her extramarital “adventures”.

Introducing the competitive aspect of another man into a Cuckold marriage, a woman can readily alter her husband's behavior back to the days when they were first dating.  Husbands become more focused on their wife, and maintain a higher state of arousal for her, and attention to her, once the possibility of another man enters the relationship.

Last, Cuckold marriages can evolve into a great variety of preferences. In my own practice I have seen them range from those in which cuckolding wives enjoy dating in private, to those who enjoy having sex with other men in front of her husband, and just about everything in between.  However, almost all the couples in my practice have very loving marriages with a playful sense of arousal that seem conventional in every way except that the wife sees other men, while her husband remains monogamous and faithful to her.

The key to cuckolding a husband is the wife

Of all the couples I've been with, the ones I enjoyed the most were those with a wife who was actively engaged in every aspect of our play. 

I have been with some wives were almost as passive as their husbands. They were not very active, not vocal and mostly just there. Sometimes I got the impression that they were just doing it for their husbands. The experiences were enjoyable, but definitely not all they could have been.

The best wives were those who got into the whole experience. They loved the sex with me, and they also loved turning on their husband. They were vocal leading up to sex, vocal in bed, and vocal afterward. In other words they were involved.

I try to read other Hotwife and cuckold blogs because it's good to learn from others and get new ideas. I found a particularly interesting post from a cuckold husband who was writing to explain that his wife was hesitant to say things that she feared would be hurtful to her husband. In his words, she didn't get what it was all about. 

After reading his post, and thinking back to some of my experiences, I believe he may be onto something. You see, cuckolds WANT to be teased and taunted with comments that might seem hurtful to you and I. 

They LIKE knowing that their wife is a slut for you

They LIKE knowing that their wife wants your bigger/better cock

They LIKE knowing that they may lose control of their wife because of you

I encourage you to have a real discussion with the wife early in the relationship, and help her understand what it is that her husband REALLY craves. Make her understand that he will not be hurt by knowing that she prefers fucking you. Make her see that he wants to hear things such as she could potentially fall for you, or you could knock her up. Sure it's all fantasy stuff, but that doesn't make the appeal any less real. 

Here is a list of things that the cuckold husband said he would love to hear from his wife, promising that they would not be hurtful at all, but would be very arousing coming from his wife's own lips:

Things that you think would be hurtful, but I would be excited to hear.

• His cock is much bigger than yours. To be honest, I prefer it to yours.
• I get hornier for him than I do for you.
• I plan to start going to him when I need sex.
• He’s all I think about some days.
• I’m sorry that you don’t like me being gone so much, but I’m not stopping.
• This was your idea. You got what you wanted. Deal with it. 
• He can fuck me any time he wants.
• I’m sorry if you want me to stay, but I’m going over to his place again tonight.
• I love you, but he satisfies me.
• I don’t love him, but I do think I’m getting feelings for him.
• I’m sorry I didn’t come home last night. He wanted me to stay over.
• He has stopped using condoms. I’m good with that.
• You do realize that he could get me pregnant, don’t you?
• The thought of getting pregnant with him doesn’t bother me. I really like him.
• He doesn’t want me to fuck you at all this week. I told him I felt the same way.
• I’m going to spend the night with him whether you like it or not.
• I’m still your wife, but this is his pussy. 
• (Before sex in front of hubby) Watch how he fucks me. This is how I like it.
• (During sex) I love his cock much better than yours!
• (During sex) This is the best fuck I've ever had. 
• (During sex) Watch and learn from him.
• (During sex) He's already lasted ten times longer than you do.
• (During sex) I would do anything he says right now.
• (After sex) That was the best I ever had.
• (After sex) I don't think my pussy has ever felt this good.
• (After sex) You never shot a load this big in me.
• (After sex) I wonder if he got me pregnant.

That's a list of very intense things for a wife to say to her own husband. But the cuckold husband wants to hear them (and more). 

Do everyone a favor, and encourage the Hotwife to learn how to talk that way to her husband. Give the cuckold what he wants, so that he will keep encouraging his wife to come back to you for more. It all benefits you, the Bull, eventually. 

Refraining from Sex

Many couples find that they enjoy refraining from having sex for some time whenever there is the possibility of the wife seeing a lover or Bull in the near future. 

It can be a fun way to heighten the experience for everyone involved. Not only does it help create sexual tension and build anticipation, but it can create a more intense sexual experience with incredible orgasms.

However, there is a fine line between building sexual tension and creating an intolerable situation that results in excessive stress and frustration for everyone. A little sexual frustration leading to better orgasms is a great thing. Letting that grow into emotional frustration is not!

However, abstinence is something every cuck couple and Bull should consider including in their repertoire of games. 

There is also voluntary abstinence and involuntary abstinence. To be sure, the entire cuckold-Hotwife-Bull relationship is actually a form of role play, and so everything is voluntary. But creating the illusion of involuntary acts and the lack of choice can be a powerful tool. 

For instance, a Bull may insist that the couple not have sex within several days prior to a planned encounter he may have with the wife. 

Or the wife herself may rebuff advances from the cuckold husband, insisting that she wishes to remain celibate until she is taken again by the Bull, who is her preferred lover (slight domination theme).

Abstinence can be limited to intercourse only, or it can include all sex acts. I know one couple that engaged in regular sex (oral, handjobs, etc.) while I was seeing her. But intercourse was strictly limited to me. The only time he was allowed to enter his wife was during the end of our encounters together, and then only after I had completely satiated myself with his wife. That husband had some of the most intense orgasms he'd ever experienced in his life.

The length of time to wait is a matter of personal preference and tolerance. The average that I have experienced is usually a matter of days, perhaps two to five days. 

For instance, if I was planning to see a couple on a Saturday I might instruct them to have no intercourse after Tuesday, and no orgasms after Thursday. That's just an example. You will have to come up with your own guidelines based on your own experience, and that of the couple. 

Try it though. You may like it!

Creampies

If you’re not into the cuck-Hotwife lifestyle, you probably have not heard the word ‘creampie’ used in a sexual context.  Basically it a description of a woman’s vagina after a man has ejaculated inside her.

For those in the lifestyle a creampie can be a focal point of the evening.

You see, a creampie is the considered the ultimate sign of a wife’s infidelity. A Hotwife is seeking a sexual experience with another man. Her cuckold husband encourages her sexual activity. To both of them, there is no better confirmation that the wife has accomplished that goal than a pussy full of semen from another man.

This provides irrefutable evidence that she has had sex with someone other than her husband. Furthermore she has allowed that man to ejaculate inside her, which is an act normally reserved only for her husband, furthering the “slut wife” angle which so many cuckolds enjoy. There is also the pregnancy risk aspect, which for some has a very strong appeal.

Some wives may flaunt their used pussy in front of her husband after having sex, in a form of mutual teasing. This can be immediately after sex, assuming the husband is present, or it can be after returning home from a “date”.

Eventually this almost always leads to “creampie eating”, or oral sex, with the cuckold husband going down on his wife after she has had intercourse with another man.

I have found that there is usually a natural progression to creampie eating in most cuckold relationships. The husband is almost always in a high state of arousal after watching his wife have sex, or even if he is home alone while she’s out on a date, knowing that she is having sex.

Upon their reintroduction to one another the cuckold is strongly attracted to his wife, wanting to hear all the details about her evening, and to see, touch and smell her after her sexual encounters. This heightens his attraction and lust for her, helping them bond again.

During these reacquaintances the husband will come in contact with other men’s sperm left on or in the wife. At some point, sometimes with the wife’s encouragement, or at the direction of the Bull, the husband will find himself at a point where he will go down on his wife.

While often hesitant at first, most cuckold husbands find this to be a very pleasurable part of the evening and begin looking forward to it. The experience literally immerses them in an overdose of the senses as they see, touch, smell and taste their wife and her lover, which can be quite intoxicating. 

I myself am fairly neutral on this. As much as I may crave the opportunity to deposit a load of my sperm inside a gorgeous Hotwife, once I’ve done so then I have no preference what happens to my load. If a husband wants to eat his wife afterward I am only too happy to oblige. In most instances I have found that it is a total turn-on for the wife, and usually readies her for another round of screwing. So in that regard I am all for it.

I do recall one occasion where I fucked a beautiful blond wife in the missionary position, with her hips propped up on a pillow. Her husband was at the bottom of the bed, watching everything. After I came inside her I rolled off to the side, and she laid there with her legs outstretched. Then she smiled at her husband and said “Crawl between my legs and put your mouth on my pussy. I know you want to”.

He did just that. She and I laid there together in the dim light, her massaging my cock while I kissed her and played with her tits. We both watched her husband feeding hungrily between her legs until she reached another orgasm with all three of us together. It was pretty cool.

One thing to consider is that creampie eating can also have a domination angle to it, if played as a “demand” by the wife or the Bull. After sex, instructing the cuckold to get between his wife’s legs and “clean her up” is another way to push you (the Bull) up the pecking order, while simultaneously pushing the husband lower in the pecking order. In fact, if it’s the wife giving him direction then he is indeed on the bottom. So you can use this as a tool for domination.

If you want to help your cuckold couple learn to enjoy creampie eating, I would first get the wife onboard with the idea. All wives love oral sex. She shouldn't have a problem with it. Tell her it will be fun, with both of you working together to persuade her husband to do it.

Here is a simple way to make it happen:

Step One – Start having him go down on her BEFORE you fuck her, i.e., have him  ‘prepare’ his wife for you (minor domination).

Step Two – Later, start making him go down on her BETWEEN fucks. When you change positions or take a break, have him eat her pussy. This way he gets accustomed to going down on her after she's been fucking.

Step Three: After you cum inside her, have the husband finger his wife’s pussy. If there’s any hesitance, have the wife take his hand and place it between her legs, using her pussy to lure him in and get him to touch your sperm. Touching her pussy is non-threatening to him.

Step Four – Put him in a 69 while you fuck her from behind and then cum in her. Tell him to keep eating her after you cum and MAKE SURE she continues to suck his cock. While sucking his cock the wife should deliberately keep shifting her hips, trying to plant her open pussy on his mouth, and make it difficult for her husband to avoid her opening. 

Step Five – After fucking, with the wife laying on her back and legs open, you both lay side by side and tell him to get between her legs. Urge him in closer, and both of you encourage him to put his mouth on her sex. Once contact is made, continue to encourage him with suggestive language, making sure the wife tells him how much she enjoys him doing that, etc.

After that it should be easy to get him to clean up his wife each time she has sex. Many cucks find that to become the highlight of their night, and many wives find it immensely pleasurable on many levels.

Give it a try. It can be fascinating to watch. 

Why be a Bull? What’s in it for me?

How to roll him over and turn her on

You found that cuck couple. Now you’re enjoying the benefits of being a bull, regularly fucking another man’s wife. Everyone’s happy.

Except you want more. You want to take it to another level, and push yourself up the dominance ladder while pushing him down a rung or two. One way to do that is to get him to take your cock into his mouth, even if it's just briefly. 

Don’t worry. It doesn’t make you gay. In fact it makes you more of a Bull, because dominance is the essence of being the Bull. You’re taking charge and asserting your dominance over them both, by demonstrating your dominance over him.

Remember: The more dominant you are over the husband, the more submissive the wife will be to you. This is one key to the relationship! Women naturally gravitate toward the dominant male. It’s part of their intellect.

If you can persuade the husband to take your cock in his mouth (even momentarily) in front of his own wife then you’ll prove to her that you’re in charge. That’s worth gold in bedroom dollars!

But what if the cuck husband is totally straight and refuses?  Don’t worry. There's a way to still make it happen, if you’re patient. Look at it as a challenge. Enjoy pushing him. There is a rush to be had from making someone do something they wouldn’t otherwise do. I have done this several times and it can be fun.

There are certain steps. First, you must proceed slowly, over several encounters. Do NOT rush it.

You will learn to use the husband’s own lust to motivate him, then use sex to reward him. Also, the wife should be involved if possible. Try to recruit her to work together as a team. She may even offer him sexual satisfaction as incentive, if he will do as you (and she) encourage him.

Contrary to what you may think, you should NOT to use any humiliation whatsoever or the result will be resentment and reluctance. Use positive feedback and encouragement during the whole plan, and get the wife into the idea. If she gets into it and her husband knows it turns her on, then he will be more willing to do it. 

You will probably need to talk to the wife privately. This can be done by phone, but I find that the wife is usually most receptive to ‘experimenting’ when I have her in bed and sexual excitement is highest. If he’s present, you should send him out of the room to talk (most cucks will leave when told to).  

When you have her alone, I prefer to get her very aroused before bringing up the subject, usually either during foreplay or after I have just entered her. That’s when most women are receptive to new ideas.

Ask her if she’s ever had any thoughts or fantasies about her husband sucking another cock. If she says yes, you’re off to a good start. If she says no, you need to ask her if she might think about it. She will of course ask “why”. 

My response here is to interject it playfully, almost like a fun game.  Try things like “Let’s see if we can get him to do it. What can it hurt?”.  DO NOT make it sound like you plan to force her husband to do something against his will. Many wives won’t agree to go along with that. So keep it light and playful, like a fun project to do together.

If she doesn’t go along at this point, DROP it. Don’t push it. Just move forward with the plan without her help.

But assuming she does go along, then ask her if she would like to help you. If she’s aroused enough, she will probably say yes, even if the idea shocks her. This is the best way, because your scheme will strengthen the bond between the two of you. It gives you two a common goal, and without her realizing it, you’ve created a situation where it’s now the two of you (a team) against him (the husband).

Here’s a summary of how I do it. Remember, each step is a separate sexual encounter or sex experience.

Night one: Have him go down on her before you fuck and then have him guide your cock into her pussy using his hand.

Night two: Have him 69 with her while you fuck her

Night three: Have him use his hands and some lube to get her pussy ready, and then use his hands to get your cock erect and ready

Night four (last step): Back to a 69. Have him eat her pussy to get her ready, and then have him lick/suck the tip of your cock and then put it in her. Have him 69 with her while you fuck. Repeat this several times during the night (changing positions) and he will no longer resist sucking your cock.

I will now describe each step in more detail. But one point to remember is that each step can be a separate night, or you can combine several steps into a single night. It depends on the reaction you get, and how long your encounters last.

First, make sure the husband is close to the action. If you normally fuck the wife alone, you will need to invite the husband to watch. Don’t let him sit in a chair across the room. Get him on the bed. Let him feel the mattress bounce and see the impact of your thrusts when you hammer his wife. He needs to smell the sex and feel connected to her.

Step #1 is to go down on his wife to prepare her pussy for you, then use his hand to guide your cock into her opening. Each time you withdraw or change positions, have him use his hand to reinsert your cock into his wife.

Step #2 is up more close and personal. He will make first contact with your dick, but in a non-threatening way. There are several positions for this, but my favorite is to have the wife in the ‘doggy’ position, with her husband underneath in the ‘69’ position. In this position he will be inches away, watching your dick penetrate his wife and sliding in and out of her pussy, sexually arousing him. It’s important that his wife suck his dick some to excite him, but not to the point of orgasm. You want to keep him aroused.

The wife should encourage him to lick her pussy as she sucks him. He will be so turned on that he’ll do it. Don’t worry if he avoids your dick. The idea is to get him used to putting his mouth in close proximity, and with all of the motion it will be inevitable that he will touch the underside of your shaft occasionally. Keep this up, until you get close to your orgasm.

All three of you should explode together.  Afterward, he will probably pull away. That’s okay. His tongue has probably brushed the bottom of your shaft a few times and your balls have touched his face, but all in a non-threatening way. All he did was eat his wife’s pussy, which is very non-threatening.

Step #3. Switches to using his hands. You and the wife lie side by side on the bed. Tell him to take a bottle of lube and get you both ready to fuck. He should kneel between her legs and lube her pussy with his hands and fingers. Then he must move over to you and uses the lube on your cock to get you lubed up to fuck. If possible, try and be flaccid when he does this. If you’re already hard he may try to slap a little lube on your shaft and call it done. That’s not what you want. If you’re flaccid he will need to work to get you hard. That takes longer, and results in more exposure to your cock, which is the goal. During this night, if you fuck more than once, have him go down on the wife and lick her pussy between fucks, and then use the lube on you to get you hard again before fucking.

The next time is the final step. The goal this time is to make him take your cock in his mouth. It’s very important that he view the act as preparing you to pleasure his wife, NOT as him sucking your cock. Mentally that is VERY different. There are several positions that work equally well for this but doggy works best, again with him underneath.

Tell him to start licking her pussy to get her ready. Then after a few minutes push you cock against her slit and tell him to lick your cock and get it wet too. If he refuses, the wife needs to help reinforce what you want. She can tell him that she wants him to do that. She can ask him to “do it for her”, etc.  She could also suck his cock to encourage him.

If he is still hesitant, tell him to lick the tip of your cock one time or he will have to leave the room. He should agree to something that simple. Then start fucking his wife, inches away from his face. After a few minutes, pull out, push your cock toward his mouth again and tell him to taste his wife (that sounds better than suck my cock).

If he resists tell him that if he doesn’t do it he’ll have to leave the room. If he’s aroused enough and gets sufficient encouragement he should open up and take your cock in his mouth.

Once that barrier has been broken, you can take it as far as you wish. I would stress that whatever you do, it’s important that you and the wife be on the same page. Read her body language to make sure she is comfortable with it (most wives get very turned on by it). If you both get off from her husband sucking your dick, then make sure she provides the right encouragement and support. After all, he loves her. If he knows it pleases her, then he will be more likely to do it. If it is a wild turn on for her, then he’ll go even further.

I have used this technique to get totally straight cuckolds to suck on my cock before I fuck their wives. To be sure, I’m not gay at all. It’s all about demonstrating my dominance, and I LOVE the way that the wives react when they see that I can get their husband to do something they thought was impossible. If a woman watches me do that, then it makes her more likely to do anything I want, too.

It can be done if you’re smart, patient, plan your play, and play out your plan. With the right encouragement the right cuckold will do anything to see you fuck their wife. A smart bull uses that to his advantage!

The Guide for Bulls

So, you’ve wanted to be a “Bull” and now you’ve found that perfect couple. She’s a Hotwife looking for a regular lover. He’s a cuckold (or wants to be) and he’s willing to step aside and let you and his wife become lovers.

Now what?

This is where the men get separated from the boys, pal. I have real experience with this. I’ve seen the best and the worst, of both people and experiences. I’ve also talked to others and shared many stories of real life experiences.

First of all, most single guys are totally clueless when it comes to being a real “Bull” in a cuckold-Hotwife relationship. They think being a Bull is just fucking someone’s wife. Nothing could be farther from the truth, and this is why most fail miserably.

What most guys don't understand is that it’s a THREE-WAY RELATIONSHIP.  In fact it is more complex than a normal relationship because it involves THREE people, not two.

But wait, you say. I only want to fuck someone’s wife. I don’t need a relationship with her husband. WRONG! You fail. Go back to AFF and start looking for single chicks, because you don’t get it.

On the other hand if you want to learn something that could lead to a higher quality, more satisfying sex life than chasing 20-something year old, clingy, airheaded drama queens then do read on.

Being a Bull means you’re coming into an existing marital relationship. Before you even show up at the door understand that the couple has already discussed what they want long before reaching out for someone like you. Your first job is to find out exactly what they want, and then FIT INTO that.

Then you must follow a certain protocol to create a new three-way relationship. One word of advice: no matter what you expect the relationship to become later, during the first meeting or two you should be a complete gentleman. Until you get some signal from the couple you should NOT initiate anything sexual or act as anything other than a complete gentleman. Even if things should progress into the bedroom during the second (or even first) meeting, you should progress slowly and not overwhelm them.

The perfect relationship WILL NOT happen instantly. It takes an investment of time by everyone INCLUDING YOU. Like any sexual relationship, learning the needs and desires of the other person is a process. As you learn the couple, and they learn you, the relationship becomes more comfortable and the sex gets better. Eventually it will become what you/they envision, but only if everyone works together.

Now, let’s start with “what everyone wants”. There are many variations of cuckold/Hotwife play. Communication is key to getting a clear picture of the desired relationship. There are many studies and theories as to the motivations for the Hotwife-cuckold lifestyle among otherwise monogamous couples. You may want to read up on it, to become better educated about why she wants to fuck someone else and why he wants her to do so. It is both fascinating and erotic reading. The better educated you are the better your experience can be.

The most common underlying theme for most Hotwife/cuckold couples is for the Bull to become the sex partner of choice for the wife. This can range from seeing him occasionally, all the way up to daily sexual encounters. Every couple has a different idea, and it’s important to know what their expectations are. In addition, “real life” can and does often restrict or interfere with the scheduling of play times. 

As a Bull, it’s important to realize that you’re dealing with a married couple with job(s), a family, social obligations, perhaps children, etc.  There will be times when play will need to be canceled or postponed because of the realities of life. You should always be sensitive to that, and never become angry about last minute changes, cancellations, etc.  Be understanding about these setbacks and you’ll be rewarded with a more appreciative and willing wife!

Once you establish everyone’s expectations about frequency, another thing to discuss is how the meetings are arranged. Some prefer regular schedules, i.e. every Saturday night for instance. Others like more flexibility, and even spontaneous meetings. Some of the hottest experiences I’ve been involved with have been spontaneous texts that resulted in late-night, last minute encounters (Horny? Can you come over? Or can I come see you?).

It’s important to know what the couple enjoys. If they’re into the wife having the freedom to reach out to the Bull when she’s horny, or if you all agree that she’s “sexually on demand” to the Bull, then you can enjoy impromptu daytime, lunchtime, or late-night quickies.

Many couples enjoy some level of sexual denial for the husband. Some enjoy limiting intercourse between themselves for several days before the wife plans to meet with the Bull. Others go so far as limiting the husband to handjobs, blowjobs, etc., during the entire time that the wife is seeing another man. 

This can be a fun area for the Bull to participate, perhaps demanding that the wife refrain from fucking her husband before their dates, etc. The Bull may even get enjoyment from voicing his demands to the husband in the wife’s presence (i.e., I don’t want you fucking her until I do her Friday night).

The idea of the Bull becoming the sole sexual partner of the wife can be fun to explore, and it’s a core theme in almost all Hotwife-cuckold relationships, with many choosing for the Bull to become her sole “intercourse” partner.

Another area to discuss upfront is your communication with the wife. Some couples prefer that the husband coordinate meetings between his wife and the Bull. Other husband’s grant their wife complete freedom, and she can call, email, text, etc. These are by far the easiest and hottest arrangements, as you can tease, flirt and engage the wife 1-on-1 with complete privacy.

Next you should discuss what the couple expects when it comes to you being alone with the wife. Some couples only play together. This can range from MFM threesomes, to the cuckold husband merely being present and watching. Other couples prefer that the husband be on the premises, but not necessarily in the same room, such as waiting in the living room or in the guest bedroom, perhaps listening in, etc.

Then again, many couples enjoy the wife going out alone on “dates” with the Bull. Realistically, most “dates” consist of the wife merely visiting the Bull at his home or a hotel for a sexual encounter. It’s not uncommon for the husband to help the wife prepare for her dates, often helping her bathe, do her hair, shave her legs and pussy, pick out sexy clothes and help her dress. 

Some Bulls take advantage of this by contacting the husband before the date and dictating what he wants the wife to wear for the date, and the husband will select those items for his wife.  Some Hotwife-Bulls will call the husband while having sex and let him listen in, or videotape themselves having sex so the wife can show it to the cuckold-husband later. In recent years some have turned to Skype, webcasting and other internet based products to share their acts with the husband watching in real time.

There is a certain excitement that can result from the Bull taking the wife out in public for dinner or a movie, etc. This can be a wise move by a smart Bull, as it not only starts the relationship off in a more traditional manner, but there is also some risk of the wife being seen in public with a strange man. While this may feel uncomfortable for the wife, she will also feel “naughty” and find it exciting nonetheless, which can lead to heightened sexual response later in the evening. This also shows that the wife is sufficiently attracted to the Bull that she will go outside her comfort zone and “take chances” to be with him. This is a good sign that the Bull will be able to push the wife in other areas as well, perhaps persuading her to do things that she may not do with her husband (semi-publix sex, visit a swing club, threesome with another male/bifemale, etc.).

Some couples enjoy overnight encounters. However, this is more common with couples that have already experienced some Hotwife-cuckold play in the past, and is probably not something newer couples would find appealing. However, if it is a possibility, it’s important to discuss those details too.  There are many possibilities here, including the wife spending the night at the Bull’s home, the Bull spending the night at the couple’s home, or even an overnight hotel stay. Some also enjoy the wife and Bull going together for out-of-town trips, short cruises, etc.

In those instances where the Bull stays at the couple’s home, there are variations. Will the Bull and wife sleep in the guest room, or in the master bedroom? There is often significance to the wife’s “infidelity” and the marital bed, and the Bull should be sensitive to that. 

Some couples limit the wife’s sexual play to places other than the marital bed, i.e. the marital bed is sacred and only for them. Other couples derive additional pleasure from the wife “cheating” in their marital bed, and playing there can be even more exciting for them. You should discuss this ahead of time. 

Also, when spending the night it’s important to be clear about the expectations for the husband. Will he be present all night? Will he be present only during the sex, then go sleep in a separate bedroom? The couple often already has an idea of what they would prefer here, so you should find out.

Decide what other places/variations you all might enjoy. Some couples fantasize about the wife and Bull having sex in the backseat of a car or a semi-public spot. Some cuckold husbands enjoy the thought of coming home from work to find their wife in bed with the Bull, or knowing the Bull was at his house fucking their wife while they were at the office. Multiple partners, videotaping sexual encounters, outdoor sex, etc., can all enhance the experiences to be shared.

Bear in mind that most Hotwife-cuckold couples also focus on the Bull being “well-hung”, or at least being better hung than the husband. Ironically this is not something to be avoided around the husband, but instead should be openly discussed as a point of excitement (she NEEDS a bigger cock and he LOVES knowing she needs it). Hopefully, as the Bull, you are better endowed than the husband. However, if not, it’s still possible to build the desired relationship since much of it has to do with the Bull’s attitude and manner. If sufficiently assertive and dominant, most any Bull can still pull it off no matter what his endowment.

The age of the Bull is an area of some debate. Because most couples are seeking a Bull for the wife’s sexual pleasure, they prefer someone with a high sex drive and good stamina. Obviously this is more common in younger men. However, some women find it difficult to be sexually attracted to men significantly younger than they are. As a general rule I find that most couples prefer a Bull to be several years younger than the husband, but not so young as to have insufficient experience to sexually please a mature, married woman. Confidence, demeanor and a good attitude round it out.

Verbal play can also be critical, with both the wife and the Bull engaging in some level of interaction with the husband. Experienced Bulls enjoy telling the husband how enjoyable their wife is in bed, in a teasing, taunting manner. Common things to say might include: Your wife has a sweet pussy; She loves my big dick; She sucks cock great; I’m going to fill her with my cum; This pussy is going to be mine; Your wife is such a slut, etc.

The wife can also participate, working together with the Bull to stimulate her husband, saying things like: His cock is bigger than yours; He fucks me much better; I want him to cum in me; Do you like seeing me like this?; I’m going to fuck him more than you; He’s stretching my pussy out; etc. 

Here is a list of some other Things Cucks Love to Hear From Their Hotwives.  I often encourage a wife to say things like this to her husband, sometimes whispering in her ear and telling her to tell him, because I often know what the Cuck wants to hear more than the wife knows.

Another important issue is birth control and/or condoms. These are not necessarily the same. Some couples use no birth control other than rhythm method. Other couples use birth control, but may want the Bull to use condoms due to health concerns. This needs to be discussed upfront, and everyone in agreement. Be aware that this may be one of the few areas where the wife and husband will disagree. 

The wife may choose the more conservative approach and opt for condom use, while the husband may prefer that the Bull not use a condom and ejaculates inside his wife. This is one reason that the Bull should befriend the husband, as they can both work together to persuade the wife to concede and allow the Bull to engage in intercourse and ejaculate freely inside the wife. For most cuckold husband’s this is one of the most intense aspects of the act, and he will want his wife to get “creampies” from the Bull.

This can also lead to another angle, which involves the cuckold husband going down on his wife after she has had sex. Often called “clean up duty”, it is a staple of most cuckold desires. This act can be an intense experience for the husband, as it totally immerses all of his senses in the undeniable fact that his wife has been “slutty and unfaithful”, which is what turns him on the most. Many couples do this after the wife returns home from a “date”, but it also can occur soon or immediately after a sexual encounter at home. See my blog on Creampies.

If the three of you play in each other’s presence then consider including this after you engage in intercourse with the wife. The act itself can have a slight humiliation aspect to it, and some cuckolds enjoy being “told” to do this by the wife and/or the Bull. It can be both a post-sexual act to bring the wife to another orgasm, as well as a means to prepare the wife for the next round of intercourse.

Also, remember that relationships evolve. For instance, at first the wife may want her husband to be present for all sexual play. Later she may become comfortable playing while her husband is in another room. That could eventually lead to her playing alone, and visiting the Bull at his home. Or perhaps the couple isn’t interested in an overnight stay at first, but in time they may become comfortable with that idea. Many ideas can become more appealing as the relationship progresses.

There is one rather extreme variation of the Hotwife-cuckold theme, which is the idea of the wife becoming pregnant by the Bull. In reality almost all couples separate this fantasy from reality. No sane couple would intentionally bring a child into the world just to fulfill a sexual fantasy. But an offshoot that is a common theme is “pregnancy risk sex”. Some couples find it more exciting if the wife has intercourse with the Bull during times when she is near ovulation. Others like to use the withdrawal method during this time of her cycle, playing with fire so to speak.

Some wives are reluctant to openly discuss this fantasy, as they find it too close to reality. After all, pregnancy COULD happen. Yet, the idea can still turn them on and a smart Bull can use this to create intense sexual experiences. Nature’s urges can be strong and therefore exploitable. I know wives who get extra wet at the thought that they could get pregnant from the good looking guy pumping his sperm into them. Many wives have fantasized about a man refusing to pull out when asked (forceful insemination), or had thoughts of becoming so aroused that they lose the willpower to ask the Bull to pull out at all. Keep this in mind if you want to enhance your encounters with a Hotwife. It can be a powerful addition to the experience as long as you use subtlety and innuendo.  

After discussing all of those important issues, you should have a good idea whether or not your desires and those of the couple are a good match. If they are, then what you need to do is craft a plan that has one important goal:  You must become the Alpha Male in the relationship.

All social mammals have Alpha Males. They are the fastest, strongest and/or smartest males in the pack. Females are instinctively drawn to the Alpha Male because they have the best genetic material. Human females are no different. If two men are in her life, a woman will instinctively become more attracted to the Alpha Male.

When you come into the relationship, remember that you are altering an existing bond between two people. There is an emotional bond and a sexual bond. You don’t EVER want to do anything that interferes or hurts the emotional bond. If you do, both the husband and the wife will react negatively. In fact the strong emotional bond is required to give them the comfort to include a third person in their relationship. If you weaken their emotional bond then insecurities and  jealousy will emerge and ruin everything. NEVER ever make a play for the wife as anything other than a sex partner. If you do then everything will come to an end.

However, their sexual bond is entirely different. Not only CAN you break that bond, you MUST break it. Breaking their sexual bond and then bonding sexually with the wife is your goal.  When it comes to sex, you want her to think of you.

When you first meet the couple, know that the wife loves her husband and looks to him for sex. If you do everything right, in time she will still love him but she will LUST FOR YOU if she begins to view you as the Alpha Male.

Becoming the Alpha Male in the wife’s eye is easy, but only if you follow a certain path.

First, you must befriend her husband. That’s right. He needs to become your buddy. This should involve some light male bonding, such as watching a few ball games, drinking some beer together, a fishing trip, whatever. In addition, the first time or two you are together with the couple you need to play the role of buddy with the husband (even if you’ve already started having sex with the wife).

After all, you and he are on the same team. You want to take his wife away, sexually speaking. He wants the same thing, because more than anything he wants to see her become an insatiable slut again and he knows she needs someone new to do that. So make him a friend and keep him a friend. There WILL come times when you’re trying to persuade the wife to do something, and having her husband as an ally can be very helpful!

By the second or third visit, you should begin to assert yourself. Ask the husband to get your drinks and refills AND ask him to get the wife’s drink too! This is very important, as it shows that you’re looking out for “YOUR” woman. You can bet that the wife will notice this too, although she probably won’t say anything.

If you’ve already started having sex with the wife, take this same attitude into the bedroom. At first, suggest that the husband sit and watch you two have sex. You want to mostly ignore him but you can still talk to him and have his wife talk to him at times. But I mostly act as if he’s not there and at times I honestly can forget he’s there. The wife should be your focus. But at some point act like you’re thirsty and ask him to go get drinks for you and your lady. Ask him to get a towel or lube or whatever else you can think of. Make up tasks if you have to. The point is to have him do things when you ask.

During later visits this should progress to you telling him what to do in the bedroom. You should get no resistance if you progress slowly from being his buddy… to asking him to do things… to then telling him what to do. It will seem like a natural progression for everyone involved, including the wife (who will be noticing everything).

Many wives get aroused watching this progression. That arousal is going to benefit you. In her eyes you will be emerging as the Alpha Male. Eventually, you should be able to tell the husband to do anything non-sexual, and he will oblige.

Next, take it to the sexual level. You want to get him involved and excited, while making it clear that you’re still in charge. You can "allow him" to suck his wife’s breasts or rub her clit when you’re fucking her. Have him grab her ankles and pull her legs wide apart when you’re pumping your cock into her. Have him go down on her before you fuck her, or even between fucks, to keep her wet and ready. Have him kiss his wife deeply while you make her cum.

You can do anything you want, as long as he gets involved occasionally to experience his wife’s sexual intensity when she’s with you. You want him to smell the sex, hear her gasps and feel her hot, sweaty skin. After a while tell him to stop and go sit back down. Show him that you will allow him the occasional joy of touching his wife, but that you’re definitely in control.

Another thing to consider is telling him to take out his cock and masturbate while he watches. You could tell him to cum while watching his wife getting laid, or go the other way and tell him to masturbate but not to cum. Again, use your imagination, as long as you’re telling him reasonable things to do. Remember, the wife will be watching too, and she will notice how much more dominant you’re becoming over her husband. 

Once things have progressed to this point the wife should really be into you, and she should see you as the Alpha Male. In her eyes, you should have completely replaced her husband in the bedroom. If she still seems to split her allegiance between him and you, or if you just want to take it to a higher level of dominance, consider making the husband put your cock in his mouth.

Believe it or not this has nothing to do with gay or bi-male sex. It’s strictly about domination. If you’ve ever watched wildlife footage of a wolf pack, then you noticed the body language of other males when they’re around the dominant Alpha Male. They maintain a low body stance, and physically roll over showing their underbelly. They submit completely. Not only does the Alpha Male see this, all of the female wolves notice it too. That’s why the Alpha Male gets the females.

If you really want the wife to be “yours” sexually, let her see you being dominant over her husband. She will be impressed and aroused. Plus, it’s one hell of a power trip. To learn how to make this happen, click here, How to get him to roll over.

Once things reach this point, the wife will see you as the Alpha Male whenever you’re together. When she gets horny, she’ll think of you. She’ll fantasize about you, and do anything within her limits to please you sexually.

With married women it’s ALL about the sex. They’re not into drama and they’re not seeking commitment. She won’t be stalking you and you won’t find her crying on your front doorstep. When she calls or texts you that means she wants to fuck. When you need sex you can call or text her and she’ll come running. Better yet, her husband will encourage it all and help with the arrangements. You’ll get more sex and better quality sex from a willing, married woman than you will with most single women out there.

That’s why it’s so worth the time investment to build and cultivate the ultimate Bull-Hotwife-cuck relationship!

For more ideas check out my other blogs. 

Good luck!